Friday, July 30, 2010

7 Months & Maggie's Story



This precious one is now 7 months old! I can't believe how fast time has flown! She is now 8 pounds, 5 ounces, and 21 inches long- so tiny! Mags is really starting to get such a sweet personality and loves to give the cutest heart-melting grins. She's starting to do better being held by people other than her mommy & daddy...but not for very long periods of time. We're working on it! She is a champ at rolling over and is so proud to hold her head high when she is on her tummy. I think it will be another couple of months before she will sit by herself, as she is just a little "top heavy" with that cute noggin. Maggie loves to watch other kids, especially her big bro. Cooper has become very interested in and protective of his sissy lately. At McDonalds last week he was playing with two little boys and said "I'm Cooper, that's my Maggie!" He is ready for her to be able to really play with him...and we have to monitor his big hugs and high fives!

Here's a little OI background and update on our girl:

During my 20 week ultrasound, the doctor noticed that Maggie's left femur was short and bowed, and that her left tibia/fibula was severely bowed. We were hoping that there was just some sort of issue when her leg leg was formed, and that we would not find any other problems. As the pregnancy continued, it looked as though all of her long bones were short and that her feet and hands were clubbed. The perinatologist broke the news to us a day before Thanksgiving that Maggie had some type of skeletal dysplasia...most likely achondroplaisa. We were shocked and so devastated. While we definitely realized that there are many, many other genetic disorders, and that so many of them are way more devastating and severe than a skeletal disorder, we were still so upset. We worried about the numerous surgeries and health problems Maggie may have due to dwarfism, and we worried about the emotional suffering she may have to endure by being different...not to mention that in no way did I feel qualified to be the mom of a special needs baby. The day she was born we were surrounded by so many friends and family and covered in prayer by not only our closest friends, but also by complete strangers, as I later learned. After an easy labor and delivery, Maggie came out screaming like a mad woman at 1pm on December 29th. She looked so much better than what we were expecting! Upon first looking, her left leg was definitely short and bowed, but her other bones looked fine. She weighed 4.4 and was 17 inches long. I cannot describe the feeling of calm and relief that I felt holding her for the first time...something I had not felt in 20 weeks. She was beautiful! It did not matter what kind of disorder she did or didn't have, she was our precious angel and we would do whatever we had to do to make her life wonderful. Later that day the Neonatologist, Orthopedist, & Genetics Specialist came to my room and told us that they were pretty certain that Maggie had a genetic disorder called Osteogenesis Imperfecta...aka Brittle Bone Disease. The disease occurs when there is a mutation on of of the genes that controls collagen formation, resulting in inadequate collagen in the bones, either by effecting the quality or quantity. This makes the bones easily broken, and makes the person shorter than average (most are considered little people). There are four main types of OI that vary by the type of mutation and physical symptoms. The doctors thought that Maggie had type IV (the types are not in order of severity), which is moderate in severity, but had to confirm by genetic testing. After a 5 day NIUC stay, Maggie came home to two very nervous parents. When Maggie was about two months old, we received the results of her blood test. It confirmed that she did have OI, but her mutation was consistent with type II OI...the most severe, and often fatal type! Since Maggie had not had any new breaks and did not appear to be as severe as a type II, the doctors were puzzled. We had noticed a few things on Maggie's body that led the Geneticist to believe that she had something called Mosaicism...that could be lessening the effects of the type II mutation. Mosaicism is when there are two or more cell populations in the genetic makeup of a person and the proportion of normal to abnormal cells will determine the severity of the disorder. How crazy is that!! What a blessing!! My heart changed from crying out in sadness "why my baby?" during the pregnancy, to crying out in joy "why my baby?" after this news. The Lord really humbled me during this time and taught us so much about the amazing love of family and friends (and co-workers), the power of prayer, and trusting in His perfect will.

Since this diagnosis we have just been doing lots of research, being careful, and just enjoying our sweet girl. We have met so many amazing parents of OI kids online that have given us lots of advice and encouragement. Since OI isn't super common, most of Maggie's doctors have not had a lot of experience with it. We have an Endocrinologist & Ortho here in Birmingham, but have decided to take her to an OI clinic in Omaha this fall to be seen by a group of experts in OI. We will go once a year for a checkup and probably have her leg surgery done there. She is also about to start Pamidronate infusions, which is a biphosphate drug that will help strengthen her bones & reduce any bone pain. Since Maggie's mosaicism makes her type of OI different, we really don't know what to expect. She has all of the physical symptoms (blue scalera, larger/heart shaped head, small body, excessive sweating, flexible joints), but has not had any new fractures since the pregnancy! Some kids don't start breaking bones until they are toddlers, so we will just have to see what the future holds. All we know is that we could not be more thankful and in love with our girl. We would not have her any other way!!


Mags on her Birthday









Saturday, July 24, 2010

Meet Our New Friend

Our friends, Adam & Tiffany, welcomed their second child on Thursday! Baby Cameron Ty is just precious and has a very proud big sister, Ava. We went to St. Vincents to visit the new family of four on Friday and had a great visit. I wish they lived in Birmingham...Coop & Ava had a great time playing together. Can't wait to watch this little man grow up!





This week...

We played on the slip-n-slide,


cut the grass,



played with sweet friends,



went to popsicles & pools at Dawson,

got into some trouble,

& took some good naps...well...some of us!


Hope you had a great week!

Monday, July 19, 2010

My, How Time Flies!

This past weekend was my 10 year High School reunion, so the four of us headed to Tuscaloosa to celebrate. The reunion was Friday night at Indian Hills Country Club and was so much fun! I think Christopher was expecting to see a few pairs of Wranglers...maybe even a mullet...but he admitted that the everything was very classy! The night just wasn't long enough to catch up with everyone!

Christopher & I



Mia came over to visit with the kids before the party.



"Pre-party" get together at the Booth's, just like old times!



Katie, Me, Ashley, Dana, & Lindsay:
These girls were my very best friends!



Tuscaloosa County High Class of 2000



Lauren, Courtney, Evan, Eddie, Dana, Katie, Me, & Ashley...
We did not want to leave!



*If you look closely at the picture at the Booth's ,you'll notice the cut-out of Katie's hubby Andrew. Andrew is currently serving our country in Afghanistan & Katie made a cardboard cut-out of him, including a shirt, so he could be a part of the night. He rode with us in the car, but did not make it into the reunion! Please be praying for Andrew's safety and for Katie. She is one tough cookie, but I know that this deployment is so hard for her. I have so much admiration for military wives! We love Kate & Andy so much!

Monday, July 12, 2010

Little boys...

Saturday afternoon we found Cooper in Maggie's crib with his diaper off & tape measure in hand... Not sure what he was up to! This little boy cracks me up!




Saturday, July 10, 2010

Cousin Love

Christopher's sister Caroline and her husband Rocky were expecting baby Harrison about a month before Maggie was due. Caroline & I had the best time being pregnant together! We compared symptoms, ate lots, and even did a little complaining together! Harrison was born about 2 weeks ahead of Maggie, and we have had the best time lining the cousins up for our own photo shoots. I can't wait to watch the three of them grow up together...and any other cousins that come along! Here are some of my faves....

Christmas time...Harrison was less than a week old.


Harrison, Maggie & our CPR doll on the day we brought Mags
home from the hospital. Coop had a love/hate relationship with
this doll for a while.



Love this one!



Look what the Easter Bunny brought!


Bath time


Fourth of July


Matching Cousin T-shirts

Friday, July 9, 2010

Finally!!

Well, after following the blogs of so many friends, and after lots of encouragement to start one of my own, I've finally decided to do it! I'm awful at keeping up with baby books and journaling, so I hope this will be an easy way to document how fast our babies are growing up, and to give our friends and family a glimpse at the daily lives of our little cuties. Please excuse any typos and my love for the comma! I'll start off this first post with a pic of my most favorite people in the world....